“The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology, or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.” – Albert Ellis
The ability to blame someone for your failures is like a security blanket for a child. While you are blaming, you don’t have to take responsibility. Whoever you are blaming, whether they played a role or not, might not even know that you are keeping them responsible for your failures, but the negative thoughts are holding you back.
Leave the past behind and move forward. Once you realize the truth, you are liberated and able to take control.
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